My doctor always requires that, Im completely undressed for my examination too. The nurse took my BP and weighed me It can help your doctor identify whether an enlarged prostate is blocking urine flow. Talk about an embarrassing naked medical moment! Now recall that the whole time were having this discussion Im lying there with a big damn plastic police baton wedged up in my business and a bladder full of Aquafina. Bumps in the genital area might be STDs, but are usually not serious. Hi there Maite, happy to have you here! Back in middle school, I got kicked in the balls during a soccer game. People are entitled to do what they please, of course. I know that feeling, as the same thing happened to me at a skin doctor specialist. Soon the radiologists got her magic wand up my snatch and I hear a whoa!, Im like, oh hell no what the fuck is there to whoa about in there?, She turns the ultrasound screen towards me, points at this enormous black shape and goes, How much water did you drink!?. Treating yourself often. Drinking iced coffee when its cold out. In the U.S., a simple X-ray would involve going into a room with a tech, being told to take off your top when the tech is out of the room and changing into a gown. She claimed it lightened the mood in a generally depressing profession. Making time for your pet. A commenter before you who was a doctor in France weighed in and said that a doctor watching you undress is NOT normal, in his opinion. I know it was just procedure but it was sooo embarrassing! Im sure a nurse had to remove my panties and butt plug. France is about 25. When a guy who made a living eating his way around the world, comes to your nation and concludes even the alcohol is disgusting, there be a lot of problems. The person who is nice to you but isn't nice to the waiter isn't nice person. He cant get it out, so he enlists the help of two nurses, all of whom were staring sympathetically at my vag, unsure how to proceed. Curious to hear what strangers online go for when superficially evaluating someone, Classic_Potential_66 asked: "I kinda like a prominent nose. ", "Generally, cold places with a lack of access to spices or not much agricultural history make the worst food and Mongolia checks all those boxes. But before we get to todays little embarrassment (for me, not him) about medical nudity, I have to take you back to my first chest X-ray in France where I got my first taste of how things are done at the doctor in France. Female Urology/Pelvic Medicine & Reconstructive Surgery. Want more real stories from the interwebs? Like I said, men dont get a choice and its getting worse and worse for us. The nurse and doctor that it took a while to get things going. So like just hang out, holding a penis talking about the weather for five minutes. I hate how Americans like to criticize themselves, while forgiving almost anything on sophisticated Eurotrash! While getting a prostate exam for a physical, I asked if he could tell And as she starts inserting a fresh new speculum, grandma looks at me and says: My, arent we just getting tag-teamed today?. I was working a rehab unit one time and had to give a younger gentleman a suppository due to no bowel movement for 4 days. Even just seeing the doctor greet me himself, in normal street clothes, was a bit of a shock. And if its out of control, Ill definitely change doctors. Sigh.) Mortifying! French are usually accepting too much from doctors in general, and some -as Martin Winckler- doctors propose to have a more balanced relationship with doctors (and it could extend to physical therapists). Hi Diane, I have a story with x-rays but here in the US. . The doc was at a teaching hospital so he asked if a couple of med students could observe the exam. Patient wasn't all the way under and while I was helping the surgeon, we heard coughing and what sounded like water falling. And what about features concerning one's physique? So, theres a busy hallway full of people with a clear view into the room. S.S.S. Have some dignity. Chlamydia, an STI, often has no symptoms, but must be treated. Longer answer: It's good practice to have a chaperone present during the physical exam of a patient's private parts. Last Thursday was a normal day. Having said that, plenty of patients were willing to talk about their own mortifying experiences. If you think I did, you should report me. After massaging me for what felt like hours, he stares at my junk for a long time, before telling me that The consistency is right, you have a nice scrotum kid. Let us know in the comments below. There are a few dishes that are okay, but the lack of strong spices or seasoning makes this something I don't enjoy much. Naked What kind of doctors are you seeing, lady? First of all, I have never been to a doctor in France but have been to a fair number in the US. ", "We eat it lovingly, and there's nothing wrong with it. Did we miss any? 2020 George Takei. Its 100% the cultural norm in France. It tasted like a cleaner version of the watered-down vodka you can buy at gas stations where I live. He starts off our encounter seeming somewhat suspicious like maybe I am a fetishist/ bored/ whatever, but Im probably definitely wasting his time. Thanks for reading! The physical exam will take place in the urologists office and include physical examination of your entire urinary tract systemincluding the kidneys, ureters, and WebMOST EMBARRASSING EXAM EVER. Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia (BPH) Elevated PSA; Erectile Dysfunction; Hematuria; Incontinence; Kidney Stones; I guess we all will do what were comfortable with and no one should expect any more or less. Hi there, love hearing from French people in the US to get the flip side of things. I also dont think the doctor should barge in on you like try say something like jarrive tout de suite or est-ce quon pourrait en parler votre bureau?, and if he doesnt get the clue, dont be afraid to clearly state you are uncomfortable. Hi Richard, glad you found my post interesting. When I asked her why, she said her previous doctors always required her to strip to her bra & pants for any examination so they could do a general inspection. I saw him a couple years later in a public place and he shouts out to me "Hey dude remember when your finger was in my butt!". It seems to be the norm to just get undressed in front of the doctor but Im drawing the line there. WebAnswer (1 of 11): When I had the experience of an induced erection it was done by a trained female nurse, not the urologist. The naked human body is beautiful. The bulkiness and definition in the lower part of the legs represent an individual who is active, always on his feet, and is strong enough to carry me through a marathon when my legs give out just a few feet from the finish line. In a funny way but totally a pervert. I tried to take my mind off of it by asking her questions about the machine and how it worked (did you know that they can place the cursor on the screen onto the image of a vein or artery and the machine will only pick up sound for that specific part?). It was refreshing, and a fun conversation! I think he's messing with me and just answer "masturbation." When I asked one colleague about this he laughed and said something like, Only if theyre pretty, then its a nice treat. Lets keep moving forward. I took some ibuprofen, sucked it up, and kept playing. I explain to him, professionally, that he should ejaculate into the cup we provided. ", "HOWEVER, don't apply the waiter test the first time you meet someone. Then she told him to do the rest. You should be allowed to keep your bra on (apart from during the breast exam) and be given a sheet. Seeing my embarrassment as a young male, she asked and finished,gently stripping off all of my warm snug outer clothes including that European spandex underwear. Its the first time Ive ever had a medical professional be so casual about nudity with me. For an X-ray, I have a little room where Im alone and I can get undressed, then the tech is asking if Im done from the other side of the door, and then I can get in the room where I get my X-ray. Im from the UK but I worked as a doctor in France for two years and I agree 100% that attitudes regarding patient modesty are completely different in France. ", "I have a dry sense of humor. I.m used to being naked with her and the same female nurse, yet do feel somewhat embarrassed having an involuntary erection under all those layers of warm snug winter clothes, snug bib corduroy overalls long sleeve button up flannel shirt with opaque tights a long sleeve back zipper leotard and close fitting lycra undies. Hey I just had the most emarrassing exam ever.I went in to my local medi clinic to have a really bad ingrown hair looked at right under my testicles.Of course to my luck I had to get an older female doctor on call that day.Now I have always been afraid of getting an erection, and now my first female doctor ,for this lol.Anyways I when she came in and checked me everything went good,but then she said I need to follow her to the treatment room.Well then she had me take off my clothes and lay on the table with my feet in those things on the back of the table. ", "Mongolian is definitely the worst cuisine I have ever had. Before the doc even started, I was squirming like a baby, and I started to feel cozy and happy, thinking maybe the painkillers had finally kicked in. I instantly started feeling that familiar tingle down low and knew I was in for some trouble. I genuinely believe a lot of people who use said fakea** sticky sweet personalities are doing it to soften the blow if someone actually has a problem with em. The doctor wasnt ogling me or anything but there was no privacy. It is a bit much at this point. I took off the cloth and proceeded bottomless to my clothes, which were nearby draped over a chair. For example, if I approached a woman on the street, ripped off her top & rubbed her stomach (hypothetically of course haha! My wife, who is awesome, accompanied me for support. Neither person is actually any more vulnerable (or in danger) than the other so I can only assume that the Americans attitude to their own nudity is completely irrational. It feels so nice wearing very snug and sexy spandex ballet style underwear during the cold winter weather, I do feel very comfortable being with a female doctor of French decent, as they dont mind seeing a guy snug and secure in those spandex ballet ballet leotard and much to ones surprise, they are very accommodating to many American males and stay with them while they slowly and in a shy manner strip naked out of that warm spandex ballet style underwear for her examination without him being covered in a gown, but completely naked and doest phase her while examining his now naked body. ", "Its the most underwhelming cuisine I can think of. After about 15 minutes of her slowly rubbing that plastic tool all over my nuts, she finished up and said Well, your testicles are healthy! There were a few more things like rotating my arms, hopping on each leg, and having to do a duck walk! I dislocated my shoulder in a snowboarding accident, and ended up in the ER. She said its common I went in for a prostate exam, and when the doctor was performing it, I ejaculated. Im kind of kinky. I remember wearing rather snug, warm outer snowsuit and leotards underneath. Web#1. ", "Never saying sorry. I hope you passed! I went to Germany to start working as a TV presenter on a local sports show and I needed to have a medical before I signed my contract. Thanks Diane, yes I did pass. Ill have to run 2.4km in 13 mins 10 secs, on a treadmill. ", "I am not a fan of boiled meat, especially if it is horse, fermented horse milk, or dried fermented milk. If I lived in France, Id just parade down the hall past the others stark naked if necessary and just smile and say hi. During the procedure, your doctor guides a narrow, flexible scope through the urethra into the bladder. We enter his bladder and there is a huge KNOT in the cord. ", "Fellow nosephile! Created for people with ongoing healthcare needs but benefits everyone. I arrive at the physical therapists office, which is part of his home converted to an office, ready for my sauna session which is supposed to loosen up my muscles. While I did not understand much of the conversation (French love to speak in French regardless of knowing there is someone who doesnt speak French in the room), my boyfriend told me later he was glad that I couldnt because I would have said something rude. Not like a really aquiline nose, or a big shnoz. '", "The Netherlands. They saw meconium (first baby poop) in the amniotic fluid, so they started flushing me out. this is just a minor blemish on a really kind person' to someone who would throw them in the car crusher because their ac was too loud. Read on for being naked in front of doctors in France! It was Chevy's level at best. Ive been to going to a female doctor for physical exams and other medical care only in the U.S. for several years, who known me well too. It's one that just doesn't get old. ", "Check out her page to see if she posted us having sex. See how you start to overthink these things? in front of all those people! I am NOT doing anything that is supposed to be pleasurable or having sex or taking anyone's virginity during exams. ", "Thats super illegal and sites like that have protections in place. We disclaim all responsibility for the professional qualifications and licensing of, and services provided by, any physician or other health providers posting on or otherwise referred to on this Site and/or any Third Party Site. Webembarrassing urology exam Hakkmzda. I live in England. I still hate myself for it. Stay up to date with everything Oui In France! She did that thing that doctors do when they put their hands down your pants, cup your sack and tell you to cough. I just glanced up at him cause he sort of swayed and it caught my attention (he was falling asleep lol). It was about to begin. So would I mind? We go to an urgent-care hospital, and as soon as I get some anesthesia, Ive stopped thrashing, and they can properly diagnose me. Touching my toes while topless, and getting my back felt up, wasnt much fun!! I'm primary care. About the gyno, I mentioned the no sheet thing based on others experiences and theyve scared me from going to the gyno here (but I should). Kids acting like this is an everyday NBD kinda thing. ", "Id personally move on. So you have that to look forward to, I hope! Excellent point about the patient not even realizing if something extra was done. WEll maybe the norm is not walking past the divider curtain and peeking in, but it is normal to not be given anything to cover up with or have privacy while youre undressing at the doc. Once again, I have to show an older fellow my junk. But what does that mean for the people who know the content creators? The doctor was adjusting her wheely stool, it slipped, she lost her balance and went headfirst into my spread eagle crotch. I didnt care, so I end up in a room with this REALLY young looking female resident and an older grandmotherly instructor. As an American male and being helped by getting any snug and sexy attire off become just a natural happening with a French or European female doctor. A digital rectal exam (DRE) is a simple procedure in which a healthcare provider inserts a lubricated, gloved finger into the anus to check for abnormalities in the rectum and pelvic area. She didnt stay in the room while I undressed, or afterward when I dressed, perhaps because she had other things to do than watch me. I lost so much weight in the six months I lived there. I live in the United States and have adopted the nudist/naturist subculture. I had this dermatologist in NYC who removed a mole and he was a total pervert. We get none of the privacy and respect for our dignity that women get from the opposite sex. ", "Major red flag, and its easy to tell if you get them out of a professional environment. I wish I had told the patients at the time that these comments are not appreciated. I thinks sometimes its the fear of the unknown that is the issue and not knowing whats next or whats expected of you causes even more stress. Undressing at an appointment almost regardless of your problem is fairly normal in some European countries like France & Germany, but that doesnt mean you have to do it, nor should you. Have you ever had an embarrassing physical experience like this? This also applies to cashiers, counter help, hotel clerks, custodians, security guards and everyone else in similar positions. Really, its the easiest thing in the world to say youre sorry and move on, and theyre only slowly getting that. That was it I now had a full on HARDON and in a very embarrassing position.Well if that wasnt enough she now sits right in between my legs and this is what I thought was kinda weird?She then just sat there and was asking all types of medical questions, and seriously this took like 15 minutes.The whole time I have this full on erection and too my horror now I'm dripping precum really badly.Now when she finally gets ready to look at this stupid ingrown hair thing ,oh and still have this erection she then grabs some tissue and starts whipping the precum off my penis.At this point I'm sooo beat red and horrofied that I couldn't even look at her lol.She kinda just laughed and she something like "well I guess we know that works good". Sometimes Ill be wearing my favorite mens snug spandex running tights with sexy microfiber undies. I dont want to be that prude American but also am not comfortable with how everything is done here. directions too literally and tried to shove a handful of semen through the office window. Granted, I have never been to Russia, North Korea, or Antarctica. As an American, male I was somewhat embarrassed when told all clothes have to come off. It is your body and you shouldnt have to disrobe in front of strangers who have NOTHING to do with your exam! Then the tech would come back and knock to see if youre ready. I respect everyone elses too. Is it normal to be naked at the doctor? I go to the doctor, and apparently, I need an ultrasound. Any doctors out there? The Lamb Clinic provides a comprehensive assessment and customized treatment plan for all new patients utilizing both interventional and non-interventional treatment methods. We put trust in our doctors to do the right thing, whats necessary and not be perverts. At this point, its a cultural difference that I dont think Ill ever get used to, but as long as Im living in France, Id better learn! Its been a year since the last comment, and over two from the original post, but I want to point out that subcultures can differ markedly from the prevailing culture. Suffice it to say Im NOT looking forward to my initial medical exam and the ones to follow! As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. As for lightening the mood by making fun of people, I guess that happens everywhere but Id like to think every doctor treats every patient like they would their own mom/dad/sister/brother. Even though I am straight, there are certain things I do not feel comfterable showing or discussing with females. We know you can choose a lot of sites to read, but we want you to know that were thankful you chose Did You Know. people who have a capacity for self-reflection and owning their mistakes tell stories where theyre a**holes. ", "Given its harsh climate necessitating a largely nomadic and pastoral lifestyle, just not a lot of crops that could historically be incorporated into traditional meals. I was asked beforehand whether it was OK for Dr. X to observe, and I said it was. Because as long as you dont cross the line, you can call whatever youre doing doctor stuff, you know what I mean? Although there is more of norm towards undressing, a good doctor should be understanding and accommodate your modesty to some extent. Culture shock? Shell tell me all my nice fitting spandex clothes and underwear has to come off , as much to my enjoyable surprise this French female doctor will slowly and gently undress me, while explaining what will be done during my examination. He kept telling me to come back and make that appt for the full body skin check and winked with a big smile. Each to their own I suppose. Read this post for my experience at the French gynecologist >>. Pressure around and in the bladder. People have chosen to take control of the currency of their own bodies. My balls hurt. I dont understand why you make this statement because the whole of the article is predicated on your unease with nudity. Perhaps their affable and friendly nature makes someone more attractive. Unsure of what to do, I waited until they opened the door where the woman gestured that I should take off my shirt and bra, but she shut the door to allow me my privacy. Well shit, hes still at work, and wont be home til 7:30am. Can you, as a partner, accept this side of a lover? WebHe probably tells colleagues this story over and over again. Never disregard the medical advice of your physician or health professional, or delay in seeking such advice, because of something you read on this Site. Older man teasing me after his prostate exam that I "took his anal virginity". Can I Get STDs Through Casual Contact Like Hugging or Touching? 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